Ma’am to Mrs

A career transition journey from Military to Civilian

My first Career Change post! — 18th Mar 2021

My first Career Change post!

“It is never too late to be what you might have been.” — George Eliot

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Hi everyone, my name is Maddy and this is my first exploration into the world of blog writing (please be kind). It’s something I’ve always wanted to do but had no idea what I would write about, so the Career Transition Journey has come along at a great time for me. I have to begin with a MASSIVE thank you to John and the Forces Transition Group, who have encouraged me, given me the confidence to give this a go and agreed to host the blog on their website.

A little bit about me – I joined the Intelligence Corps as an Operator Special Intelligence (Linguist) in1998 on the promise of seeing the world, learning languages and being able to work alone for long periods (an incredibly interesting prospect for an introvert like me)!

I’ve somehow managed to make it through almost 23 years; I’ve learnt, used and promptly forgotten 3 languages; deployed and worked as: a Linguist, Operational Analyst, Reporter, Operational Team Leader, Troop Sergeant, Manager, Squadron Coordinator, Training & Discipline manager and I’m currently employed as a Skills and Training Sergeant Major – drawing up Individual Training Plans, policies, Skills Pathways and holding the responsibility for all role-related training within my Unit.

Over the years I’ve had my ups and downs; I’ve loved it and hated it, wanted to leave and wanted to stay and honestly couldn’t imagine who I would be without the experiences I’ve had. Now that the time to ‘actually’ leave is fast approaching, I wanted to share my story of my Transition process as I go through it – partly to keep myself accountable and ensure I’m moving at the right pace and in a positive forward direction. I also hope that I can help someone else – either now or in the future – to realise that whilst we are all on our own path, our feelings and emotions can be similar and are absolutely valid.

I’ve still got over 12 months before I leave, so there are many steps and challenges ahead. I hope to write about the emotions and phases I’ve gone through so far, decisions I’ve faced and made, lessons I’ve learned and the people and places I’ve found to be useful (another grateful nod to the FTG here) as I go through.

I’d love to get your own suggestions of helpful places to go for advice, things you’ve found useful throughout your own journey or even questions and queries that I can try and help you with so please leave comments and I’ll get back to you.

Look out for my next blog which will be about the processes I went through when I decided for certain that I was ready to leave…